I am asking your advice on encouraging my friend to experience the Hoffman Process. She’s one of the few people who knows I went through. (It’s a very private thing to me, and I have only shared it with certain people. I’ve not given many details and have told her that I didn’t like how I was showing up in my life and wanted to change. I’ve also told her it’s lkke 10 years of therapy in a week.)

Anyway here is part of her story: she’s in her early 50s and has metastatic breast cancer. She was in remission for a few years but has just been given a terminal diagnosis. I don’t know all the details, but it appears she has less than a year, if she even has that much time. She’s not going to do a lot of treatment because she doesn’t want to be sick from treatments in her remaining days. She’s experiencing an extreme amount of rage, which is how she describes it, and which is totally understandable. And she doesn’t like how she’s showing up. I believe she’d benefit from Hoffman and I worry about her going through some of the specific things we did that week. Perhaps it isn’t for me to worry but to encourage and let her take it from there. I really do believe spending a week of her very precious time would set her up to live out the rest of her days in a new liberated way.

If you have any suggestions or can share with me how you’ve talked with your friends, I would appreciate it. I really want to show up for her in the best possible heart-centered way.